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Iam looking for Jane Marden born June 1962 adopted in nov 1962,born in Upholland Wigan to margaret. I do not know the reason why as i was just a little girl then.However i do remember my mum crying a lot and when ever jane was mentioned afterwards my mum would still cry for this baby, up untill a few years ago I thought my sister had died as a child I did not have any other explanation. Then one day i decided to look for my sister I went to the area where we lived and looked her up in the births there she was, I just stood and looked, I then went to my mum and asked her, and what I was faced with was a women who was so consumed in her grief I could not pursue it with her as it was so apparent after all these years my mum was still so emotional about Jane Now this is a very long shot , prior to jane being born I had a lot of contact with my half sister Patricia and her husband mark( surname not know) I have a feeling for no reason that maybe Jane was a adopted by them as, in my fading memory it was about the same time as jane going from the home that contact with Pat and mark also stopped. Both my parents have passed away and I still have memories of my sister and holding her as a small girl of 5, I would dearly love to find her. I have been looking for my sister for some time, years and have my name on the contact register for adoptive relatives, it up to my sister and her family to make contact.I dearly would love to have some contact . I have two beautiful girls Jenny and Sarah who would also love me to find my sister. Please if you have any info at all or if you read this Jane please get in touch,janxx