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Married to her brother-in-law?

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Lisa J in California

Lisa J in California Report 11 Aug 2005 18:20

Don't know if laws were different in Canada, but my g-g-grandfather also married his wife's sister in 1871, two years after his first wife died. I'm not sure how that worked, as it appears that all of her side remained in England -- perhaps he sent word back to England? He had 4 children with the first wife and none with the second.

Jan

Jan Report 11 Aug 2005 17:59

Yes, in mine too. My g.g.grandfather married his dead wife's sister in 1851. They didn't appear to worry about the Law, as mine aren't the first I've heard of - and it was in Church. Perhaps they told porkies LOL Jan xx

BrianW

BrianW Report 11 Aug 2005 16:45

My wife's grandmother married her dead sister's husband (widower).

Seasons

Seasons Report 11 Aug 2005 16:34

One of hubby's rellies married his dead wife's sister in 1840's.

Unknown

Unknown Report 11 Aug 2005 16:27

Nowadays in-laws refer to people who are connected to us by marriage, so a brother-in-law would be your sister's husband OR your spouse's brother. But in Jane Austen's time (early 19th c.) in-law was used to denote a step family. Marrying the sibling of your dead wife was illegal as it was thought to be against biblical law - which is why Henry VIII said his marriage to Catherine of Aragon was doomed, as she'd previously been married to his brother Arthur. In practice, I think a lot of men married their dead wives' sisters, partly because these women would be already known to them, it would help keep property in the family etc. nell

Unknown

Unknown Report 11 Aug 2005 15:57

There was a thread on here not long ago about it.I will try to find it and nudge it up for you. Gloria

Giles

Giles Report 11 Aug 2005 15:55

That atleast makes sense, but I will have to check if her sister died before they married. Is there any other possibilities? Can you explain to concept of marrying your own brother-in-law? I'm an idiot...

Unknown

Unknown Report 11 Aug 2005 15:51

Could her sister have died and she married her dead sisters husband? Gloria

Giles

Giles Report 11 Aug 2005 15:49

I'm really thick when it comes to son-in-law, brother-in-law and complex relationships. In my tree, somebody was married to her brother-in-law; what does this mean???