General Chat

Hello Crunchy....have a good sob...does yer the world of good.....Of course there are others out there with worse problems than you....but we all have ter have a moan now and then cos we aren't perfect. ( well...I am...but that is another story :-))))....Just have a whinge now and then but not every day and all day long........Now if you would like to hear all my problems please pm me, but I do so hope you have a long long time to spare :-)))))))


Chin up!.......now the other one :-))))

Berona,, you hit the nail on the head, but its a bit more than that, hard to explain.
Ill try to tomorrow


xxxx

Diane, i'm so glad you said that, ( was feeling a bit alone) i will look in on you tomorrow :)


Hayley,, hello!

I think the time of year may have something to do with it, me,
i dont know really,
(like i said, this is not me normally)

i will be back to my normal self shortly,,, with a few tweeks!


thank you for your support,
i mean that.

sweet dreams xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Aha!! Now I understand. You and Diane are both in the kind of jobs that creates emotion! It's not like being in one where you serve customers or type for a company which makes a lot of profits.....Your kind of job is one which requires you to have emotions - or you wouldn't be good at it and very difficult for you to switch off when it's time to go home.

You obviously have loyalty to your charges and you are there for them. So when things might not go as well as hoped, it affects you.

You need to look after yourselves or you won't be there for them - so take time to take care of yourselves - then you will be in the right condition to take care of them.

NC Feel no shame you dont have to a reason for feeling down its called being human, I call it my giggle juice , the chemical in our brains is running low, thats all, I think the time of year a lot of people feel like this when the nights start drawing in, please dont look for a reason or blame, hope your feeling better soon x

thread killers, here i come lol

Berona,, yes i seen you too, pleased to meet you :)

i cant say i have time on my hands, i work shifts, care work, for Altzhiemers , Dementia, i love my job, but do find it emotional, i get attatched and i do CARE lol

i dont know why i feel like this now

DON'T FEEL SELFISH.

I think I know what you're getting at, and if so I'm sure she wouldn't want you to feel selfish.

We are all at times better off and worse off than certain others, in certain different ways.

What hurts you or makes you feel down, today or tomorrow or yesterday, is real and serious and worthy of respect and understanding. Regardless of whatever else is happening in someone else's world at that time.

Love and care doesn't diminish by being shared around. Quite the contrary :o)

Maria xxx

Dont talk to me about smells Terry! I have them all the time, and music Jane! i remember them!

Music and smells are the most previlent!

Hi
dont come on often now. Memories sit way back in our minds and its not always apparent why something moves. It can be a smell a smile, a just about anything. Often they are pleasent but sometimes pretty grusome. Everyone male or female has them

Songs??? Good job you haven't been in my house tonight then.OH has been playing me all the hundreds of songs and tunes he has on his computer.I even heard Peter ,Paul and Mary lol
Take care now.
Jane x

Hi Crunchy,
I've seen you around but haven't spoken before.....Perhaps you have a little more time on your hands these days, or have suddenly found that you have time to spare, and you are reflecting back on a few things.

Do something 'different'! Start a project, or pick up an old one and get stuck into it. Go out somewhere, or contact someone you haven't seen for a while.

Don't allow yourself to sit and think about it. Get motivated! You'll find that becoming busy with something new will get you over it.

Jane, hello,

yes lots of things are affecting me at the moment, (not the image i project on here, pmsl)

songs, just anything seems to be affecting me at the mo

I cry for many memories.Happy and Sad.It can suddenly come upon me out of the blue.i can be driving along in the car and hear something on the radio ,or see a hearse and I fill up just like that.Are you just feeling a bit blue?

Broggy, thankyou, i'm glad im not alone.

i felt selfish saying it, with everything else going on,,,,,

ohhh dear

Yes crunchy,

we don't always need a reason. Or sometimes the reason isn't obvious, or seemingly that significant, but it can still affect us.

Lots of love, hope you feel brighter very soon.

Maria xx

Memory?

Hi Terry, i don think we have spoken befor,
pleased to meet you :)

It happens to best of us and could be a memory

is it time of life,,, or what????