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Debate, should one be what one is not

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Uggers

Uggers Report 1 Jan 2010 20:56

I think all you can do in life is live by your lights as well as you can. We all have to make decisions in life at times and I suppose a lot of the time we don't know if we've done the right things til we get to the end and look back:)

**Stella ~by~ Starlight**★..★..★

**Stella ~by~ Starlight**★..★..★ Report 1 Jan 2010 20:55

How could you ever be content if you couldn't be at one with yourself?

i am what i am..i have to be..

StrayKitten

StrayKitten Report 1 Jan 2010 20:54

my friend fro college followed her parents path, went of to pakista to marry her arranged marriage,

3 year later he killed her in her parents fornt garden, the neighbours sd thy didnt even realise they were together as thy lived in seperate houses

poor nuzrat :(

Rambling

Rambling Report 1 Jan 2010 20:52

I was thinking as I watched about a friend at college, not sure of their sexuality , but trying to fit into what was expected by family... in terms of religion and what they considered 'the norm'... I wonder how things went eventually.... whether they followed their own path or did what was expected...some people can live the lie .

JoyBoroAngel

JoyBoroAngel Report 1 Jan 2010 20:46

THE TRUTH WILL ALWAYS COME OUT IN THE END

so why live a lie

Dillis789

Dillis789 Report 1 Jan 2010 20:46

what a waste Stray, he can come here anytime mmmm

StrayKitten

StrayKitten Report 1 Jan 2010 20:43

im glad he didnt run of with christian lol christian is well nice lolol xxx

JoyBoroAngel

JoyBoroAngel Report 1 Jan 2010 20:33

ONE SHOULD ALWAYS TRY TO BE THEMSELVES

WHO CARES WHO SLEEPS IN SOMEBODY ELSES BED
UNLESS THEY ARE MARRIED TO YOU

Rambling

Rambling Report 1 Jan 2010 20:31

to bow to convention, or religious dogma , or the expectations of society / family?

Just watched 'Eastenders' ( well a bit of it ) where Saed (sp) marries Amira despite being gay and in love with Christian....

Is the world 'well lost for love'...whoever objects and whatever kind of love that is?

xx