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Thank you, LLC, Donna, Mary and Dawn, I hope everything goes ok on the 5th too, I will let you all know in due course what the outcome is. Donna I hope you are feeling ok now? Gillie XX

Gillie Thanks for the update Heres hoping 5th March goes ok for Sas and that Lucy continues to make good progress

Hi Gillie Yes I remember reading your thread - heres hoping the two girls continue to make good progress and the findings prove it was just that - an accident. Take care Love Mary xx

Gillie Its been a an awful time for them all hasnt, there for the grace of god......shows how easily these tragic accidents happen doesnt it. I hope March 5th wont be to trying, theyve all been through so much already. I recall your story well Gillie, all very sad. Love Donna xx

yes I do remember your thread about the accident. It seems a shame that when there is an accident they try to blame one particular person. Okay so maybe it is the driver who is in charge of the car but it was just an 'accident' not done on purpose.

Hi everyone, does anyone remember my thread in November last year about the serious car accident that my son’s ex was in with her 2 friends? I must have deleted the thread I was using. This is the very latest I have on what is happening, as you may remember the accident was with three girls, all aged 18 driving late at night, the car skidded off the road hit a tree killing one girl leaving the other two with serious injuries, the girl who died left behind a little girl of 2 years old. The driver was my son’s ex, she sustained serious concussion and memory loss, the other girl was also a front seat passenger sustained what we heard at the time as a broken back and arm and very serious head injuries, she was taken to a London’s Tooting Hospital because she was so serious. Yesterday that same girl, Lucy, came to my home, she is a friend of both of my sons, she sat with me and talked about the accident, she knew I had photos of the car on my pc and asked to see them, I asked her if she was sure and she said yes, she explained what she remembered happening during the evening, the girls were on there way to the all night garage for petrol when the accident happened, Dayna the girl that was killed was thrown backwards into the booted area, the car being a hatchback, as yet we are still not 100% sure what actually killed her. Lucy that was taken to Tooting Hospital, she actually sustained a broken neck which has since been operated on and very serious head injuries, she had a massive blow to the head from hitting her head on the doorpost, she is still in a neck/chest collar and will be until sometime in April, she has a piece of bone in her neck that has moved out of place so is still unsure if it needs putting back or whether it will be left as it is or removed, she seems very well and cheerful, although her voice has changed, she wasn’t aware of anything after the accident for many weeks even though she was told of Dayna’s death she doesn’t remember, she is just so happy to be here and truly believes someone was watching over her that night, she said that when they left the club they were all at, Dayna was the only one to kiss a friend goodbye and she was the one killed, Lucy just finds that odd, Lucy is doing ok, she said she will be down again very soon and is looking so forward to having the collar off, she is only allowed to remove it to shower, she has to wear it 24/7 and has done so since leaving hospital. Sas my son’s ex, the driver of the car has to appear at the police station on March the 5th to see if any charges will be made against her, I truly hope she doesn’t get charged for Dayna’s death, the fact that Dayna’s little girl has been left motherless and knowing she was the driver of the car that killed her best friend from childhood is punishment enough, others may differ from my thoughts. Sas had just one drink which is very unlike her, she passed a blood test and was not over the limit by any means. So that is my update, I will keep you all informed of what happens to sas in March and how Lucy is going on. I’m sorry I have no more news of Dayna’s daughter and how she is coping, although the last I did hear, she was doing well with her dad looking after her and she has Dayna’s parents close by. Sorry this is so long but I didn’t want to leave anything out. Gillie XX

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