General Chat

As most of you know I lost my lovely Son, Stephen, earlier this year, and found it tough to cope, but am coping - just. I believe Stephen is around me and looking out for me, but also playing funny tricks, typical, I lost my glasses about four weeks ago and am useless with reading etc. without them. Searched the house, the car, work and even the garden. No Joy. Gave up and went and bought a pair from a shop, not the best but theretheless, came home from work today, ran a bath, got into some comfy clothes, went into my comp room, looked down at the floor, and guess what I found-got it in one, and they were absolutley filthy, but can see bright and clear again. what message is behind that??????

Are you due for an eye test?

well i think that gives out hope,that we all will see each other again,do you get any feathers by any chance.xxxxxxxxx

Probably but have not got the time.

Jennifer,I'm sure love transcends all, Caz xxxx Good to see you love,

I do not get feathers, ut 5 pence pieces, every where, even after I have hoovered.

I was thinking he may be reminding you to look after yourself. I like Joys explanation too.

Strange, but when I rang my Daughter, to explain, she said Mum, my lights are really flickering off and on, lights, eyes, maybe he is telling me something, should I be looking harder, or should I get my eyes tested. If I am on my computer to long, it just switches off-strange but true.What is he trying to tell me?

Maybe that you just need to rest, take some time for yourself.

Never got time to take time for myself-have to keep busy-and got so much going on, must get it done. But Stephen was the same, always rushing about.

Hello Jennifer, Not sure about a message, but it certainly seems like Steven is playing with you. When I lost my brother, and Mum lost her son, Derek, we were all obviously below par, but Mum used to Talk to Derek, when things were bad, and sure enough, things became clearer, and better. Mum often lost things, but after talking to Derek, they were found. I believe in an afterlife, and also that some are helped by family 'spirits' and these 'spirits' should be spoken to, and consulted.

Yes I agree with you, that is why I go to Spiritulist church every week, but tonight staff rang in sick and I had to stay late so missed church, and it is his memorial service Sunday, maybe......

jenifer,now you have lost me.5 pence peices.hmmmmmmmmm.is there a connection with the 5 pence peices and your son.??????? i get feathers ,only when i think of my dad.often in unusual places.xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Jennifer maybe he's just saying you will see things clearer now..... in all aspects of your life as he's returned your glasses and switched on the lights!! Absolutely believe its him and he's just showing you he is around!! xx

I do not know but-whenever a member of my family have a tough decision to make, they seem to find a 5p piece-and I have collected all mine-cos I believe they are a gift from Stephen. The day before the funeral my husband hoovered the whole house, for all I had done it the day before, I insisted it had to be perfect for his day, as he put the hoover away, and I was satisfied every speck was hoovered up, I found a 5p piece, and keep finding them.

Just a story along these lines Several years ago, we had a short service to bury my sister's ashes. After the ceremony in the churchyard, I lit a cigarette - my mother then suggested we went into the church to have a look at the memorial entry in the book for my nephew. I made sure my cigarette was out, but kept it in my hand to relight later. We went into the church &, after a while I could smell a burning cigarette - I looked at the butt & it was totally alight (not one side, you understand). My mum said it was my sister having a laugh, & I believe it was - it would've been her sense of humour. Jennifer, I. too, believe Stephen is telling you to look out for yourself. Best wishes. Angela

You do know that finding money is also a spirit thing don't you? That's where the saying 'pennies from heaven' comes from! xx

Thank you Angela, I have just been down stairs and counted, I have 21 5p pieces found in different places, my daughter in law has a few and my youngest has a collection as well, sure they mean something, but what?

well jennifer ,you hang onto your 5 pences ,they give you great comfort.ive got feathers stashed all over the house.i just cant get rid of them.xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

He's with you every min of everydayxxx