General Chat

What a good job you phoned about football? I agree pretty lax of headmaster, but who would he have phoned? Obviously no one ever at home.... I do hope that she is found soon and your grandson can get the care and attention that he needs and deserves, no wonder he has been playing up - crying out for some love and attention. Hope all works out and big cuddle for grandson and other siblings xx

Oh, what a mess, I do hope all the children will be found safe and well and your son can get his lad so he can take care of him. Liz

Annie I hope 'she' turns up with the children soon (or failing that that the cops track her down) and they take the children to safety until this can all be sorted out. Stay positive and I'm sure you and your son will have your grandson back very soon, safe and sound. ((((((((((((((((((Hugs)))))))))))))))))))

Grannie that is great news for you,your son and granson..Can we all give posative thoughts and prayers for all of them..I sure am, you are such a nice lady grannie, bless you. Jay.x

Hope everything turns out well Annie . Hope they turn up soon Germaine xx

annie i do hope that they are found soon. you must be out of your mind with worry. at least your grandson will have a loving home waiting for him:) love susie

oh he's gone missing too, how awful annie bet your worried sick and your son. Have they no idea where she is? I hope they find her, asap. catherine xx

Catherine,Shes missing with all the kids.My son will get his son back when she is found. Annie

oh Annie she gone missing with the other kids? Least your son got his lad. Did she leave him on is own then? Or was he with you? catherine xx

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annie i do hope that the social services see reason and give custody to your son. how on earth can that lady call herself a mother? i will keep my fingers crossed for you all. the poor little mite deserves better than that. my grandson is also 10 years old and no way would he be capable of looking after himself and his 3 younger sisters. your grandson is only a baby himself bless him love susie x

I feel so sorry for you but also for your grandson - no wonder he is naughty. Hope your son sorts things out quickly for everyones `peace of mind. Take care Mary in Spaib

sorry to hear this grannie just what you need on top of everything else. Poor granson and the other kids. The teacher at the school should be questioned as to why he or anyone else have done nothing to acertain the childs whereabouts. Child Protection as it's now called would indeed be very interested in to what 's been happening and I'm surprised none of the neighbours have contacted them before. You say your son is going for parental responsibility? does your son see the child that is is? I hope everything works out, some people just don't deserve to have kids, I'm sorry but it's the truth. catherine xx

I cant believe the headteacher has not followed up your grandsons continued absence....that is disgraceful ! In our school, if a child doesnt come into school, and no call has been received, then the child's home is phoned. I would imagine failure to get through to someone on a regular basis would have also prompted letters home I would imagine, if the absences were that bad over that period of time, the school would have contacted another body to find out why the child wasn't in school As said before, the school has the home address, if no other contact details are available then after five weeks of continued absence another party should be contacted to investigate on why he isn't at school ( remember the school board man ?, there is similar nowadays, one childminder at school was up the town with her charge, a lad who was still poorly from an infection who she was taking to the chemist to pick up his prescription. She was stopped by a woman who was accompanied by a policeman who asked her a barrage of questions on why the child wasn't at school !...she was mortified and gave them the mums phone number) 5 times at school in 5 weeks is not good. I would be contacting the governing body of the school to make a complaint about this. It should have been followed up Elaine x .

Poor kid, I am surprised the headmaster hasn't done more about things before now, it is very lax of him, he has the home address even if no contact number. No wonder the lad is playing up. I do hope between you and your son you can help him into a better life but what of the other children, he will be close to them no doubt, and I hope they can stay in touch if they are taken from the mother. She is the kind of woman who doesn't deserve the title 'mother' and should be forcibly sterilised to stop her bringing another little mite into this cruel world she has made for the children. Good luck to your son for getting custody, and to all those children involved. Liz

At least now both you and your son know and can try to get something sorted out for your g.son. Heaven help the others if they have no one who cares. Let us hope they do. Take care Ann

Annie No wonder he is naughty - poor little mite.What does his mother think she is playing at !! ?. The kids need a loving, caring enviroment and most of all stability. They are lucky to have you. Good luck to your son with his application for custody. The kids deserve it. Love and hugs. Libby xx

You should never judge a child by their behaviour and this proves why. I just hope and pray that this boy and his siblings have a good life soon, sure with the love he has that is not a problem but just add another pray for the rest...Bless them all..Jay.xx

Sally,He is a very naughty boy thats why i thought i would pay for him to go football that he loves and channel his energys into something.Never imagined what i was going to uncover.He has to live with different men moving in and out.Babysitters that throw him out in the rain and dont feed him.He has a behaviour problem and now i understand.He is always phoning his dad or me to come round and stay.We do have him every other week-end and he never wants to go back and now i know why. Annie

Annie My heart goes out to you, you don't need this on top of everything else. I maybe speaking out of turn here, but surely it is your son's responsibility to see his son is cared for and to encourage/ join him in getting him to school and into football teams. I don't know the circumstances so maybe maybe saying the wrong thing. Kim x