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Jennifer Just wanted to let you know you and your family are in my thoughts! Today I have been doing a lot of unpacking of books and photos (even tho we moved two years ago) and found a pic of me and my SIL who died 18 months ago and I so wish I had told her how much she was loved! I tell my boys everyday but I do think sometimes we forget or feel uncomfortable saying it to our more extended family or maybe just my family? Take care Kaz xxxxxxxxxxx

Oh Jennifer you are such a love for allowing us to express our feelings without feeling we are going on, Today my local paper has a massive picture of Den Brady being repatriated from Iraq to Brize Norton, the union jack on his coffin, his poor 73 year old mum watching her beautiful only son, hes a local boy who my husband knew, Our boys are dying because of this war!!!!!!! Sorry, my words are................... GRAEME.................we have gone through so much together and our love and passion are so strong, I adore you, my darling, please dont leave us, keep safe, Your adoring wife who longs for your kiss, Carolxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx 1436 { love you for ever }

You are so right Jennifer! Night, night, and God bless you too. Margaret xx

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Good night and God Bless you all.

I am a true beliover in the ' i love you' those three little words go so far. But mean so much Kathy I reakon he know's you did truley love him babe. B

I am a true beliover in the ' i love you' those three little words go so far. But mean so much Kathy I reakon he know's you did truley love him babe. B

God Bless you all, and hope the days eventually get easier-Goodness knows when-but hopefully.

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One thing I have learned from loosing my Son, is to tell my remaining four children, every day, how much I love them, even got in touch with my black sheep sister and now at least e-mailing each other, Life is far to short, no rehearsal, this is the real thing. Love you all on this board, been a power of strength to me. God Bless you all. As I type this my twenty year old Son is getting washed and blasting Galaxy, and am I complaining-no way.

Jennifer, you are so right. I remember when my son had a ruptured spleen, running through the hospital like something from a scene from casualty, with only minutes to spare. Going with him into the anaesthetic room, knowing that the next words I said to him could be the last I ever say. All I could say was 'I love you'. How else do you put a lifetime in a few seconds without actually saying goodbye? I'm lucky, he survived and is now married with two beautiful little girls, but those few seconds will live with me forever.

Hi Everyone How true is that.Always been that way I let the people I care about know that..Sometimes maybe a little too much but hey thats me...take care all.. Janetxxx

Oh! Kathy, sure he knew you loved him.

By the time I got to the hospital my Son had gone, but the last words I remember saying to him, after giving him a cuddle, were love you Son, hope my memory serves me well.

Very true Jennifer. There are always things we regret doing in life, without regreting the things we have not done. The last thing I say to my Mum when hospital visiting ends is Love You & she says 'I love you too my girl'. I hope it is not her time yet, but want this exchange to be my last living memory of her.

If there's someone special tell them that you care Because when tomorrow comes, they might not be there. Don't leave it until tomorrow what can be said today You just put your arms around them, and this is what you say, I hope you know I love you, I just want you to know, so please don't feel embarreshed If your feelings you do show.