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grannie
glad your daughters bounced back , tho psycologically its bound to have had effect on her and her lads,

god help that man as them boys grow up,
he got it coming his way three fold,

im sure his father pops in cos he likes to see her and the boys, he probably embarrased his lad behaves the way he has,

give your daughter plenty of hugs,
and them grandsons of yours,

grannie, my thoughts are with you, you always gave me good advice (aka suz???) hope your daughter and her boys can come through all this stronger and closer love suzz

OMG ......just read this so sorry Grannie about your daughter ,...

My son broke his nose they saw him very quickly and will op very soon so the job is easier and less painful for her ...BUT it still hurts

Sorry dont want to say what I think of him else I will get a life ban...

PLEASE take care all of you and PLEASE RING 999 if he comes back ......

My health visitor was shot by her hubby as she hid in a cupboard ..he son was calling his father in the hope that his dad wouldnt hurt his mum .........His dad got mad and shot him to!!!!!!!!! beautiful family

NEVER give this person chance RING THE POLICE


Many Thanks to those whom Pmd me saying this thread is a year old .....yes I do realise that but still wanted to

1keep it up for us to re read and point out that its the POLICE whom need to LISTEN and not think us women are mad when we say our OH are a problem

Good Luck all

12 months down the road, how are things doing Grannie. Trust your daughter and children are fine and well.

Well he will get what he deserves no symperthy for women beaters and for her kids sake hope she leaves him otherwise the boys will think its ok to hit a women and will maybe abuse the mum also I have seen it first hand...... Tell her we are thinking about her xx

Thanks to everyone asking about my family.My daughter has to have a operation on her nose.Dont know when yet but she had to see the ear nose and throat surgeon.Thankfully she has bounced back and so have the boys.Her ex's step father pops down to see her and the boys from time to time,but she is not sure if thats her ex asking him to or he is doing it because he cares.I have been taking the boys football in case the ex turns up,but so far he has stayed away. Annie

Only just read this - hope they are all ok.
Love Mary xx

Yes me too , i would like to know
how Annie & daughter and family are getting on
Hazelx

Glad this thread has come back up, as I too would like to know how Annie and her daughter and grandsons are doing.

Tina xx

Dear Annie,
Only just read this.....
Hope your daughter is mending well...
It is terrible the children had to witness their mom being treated so badly....but I was pleased to think think they jumped in to 'save' their mom...it shows they thought it was wrong...
The 'good' thing is they will not be under any illusions that their dad is a good man...having witnessed him assualting their mom first hand... they will remember it when they are older.......not like my friends kids, who think their dad is the 'wronged' party..and that the sun shines out his back-side..because he was always careful not to do anything in front of them..and she is too proud to tell them the truth!!!
hugs to you all xxx

Just read this thread and hoped your daughter and grandsons are ok
I have been in this position but my sons though I took them away from the situation when my eldest son was 10yrs and 7mnths it still lives in them even now and my ex never was charged as I never told anyone but seeing him attack my 10yr old made me leave for there safety as I had a 3yr old who had a shock when small and never spoke till he was 4yr still having problems with speech and behavior

I just hope anyone reading this thread if in same position think of damage done to the kids when they witness this behaviour

Hi
Annie
just wondered how you are all doing,
hope you are all ok
take care
Bev x

Annie just read this.

Hope your daughter and her boys are safe

xx

I hope your daughter and grandchildren are safe and well. give them my kindest regards. I hope they will soon fell better from the ordeal they have gone through.

frank

Hi Grannie,
I was someone who witnessed this happen to my mother and also my sister who was 15 at the time, i fortunately was 16 and had a job, so left home and got my own place and then took my younger sister with me after my stepfather broke her nose,
My mum did try throwing him out but in those days police didnt interfere in domestic issues?(1970s)
Eventually when they were called again and caught red handed beating up my mum, the police prosecuted, he still got off but at least he left as he was not allowed near my mums house.
I to was unfortunate enough to be in this kind of relationship for six months, as these men can seem so charming at the start.
I agree with some of the other women on this thread, they are scumbags who dont kick off in front of other men who may, hit them back.
I am happily married now and have been for 20 years.
with 4 children and 4 grandchildren.
So please let your daughter know there is light at the end of the tunnel, and things do get better in time.
Please let your daughter and grandchildren know there are lots of people thinking of them.
Also sending you a hug, as a mother it is not easy seeing your daughter and grandchildren coping with this.

Bev x

People should keep their hands to themselves

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Yet again, against every bone in my body, agreeing with Lynda!

I am really sorry to hear about your daughter. i have had many women arrive at my centre with young kiddies clinging to them. it is heart breaking.
But she has a good mum to help her through this.
I wish her well .

Shirley Ann.

Those grandsons of yours probably need to get some therapy. No knowing what the sight of seeing your dad beating your mum can do.

Rose

Been with daughter most of today.Hospital say it looks like he has hit her from side on and broke her cheek bone as well.She has to see a surgeon next week. when the swelling as gone down.I am so proud of my grandsons that all at the same time jumped him punched him and chased him down the road.I know now they will always look after her. Annie