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Compatibility v lust
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McAnne's Gahan-Crazy | Report | 27 Oct 2009 13:21 |
yes *pauses* |
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MrDaff | Report | 27 Oct 2009 10:41 |
Lol I agree with Blackrose.... a bit of both, lol!! |
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blackrose | Report | 27 Oct 2009 09:39 |
I would have to say you need a bit of both. Its good to have some interests in common but sometimes its the differences and yes a bit of friction that make life interesting and if theres no lust well that makes him just a friend and we all need some lust in our lives. Weve been married 30 years in Jan and weve had our ups and downs because of some of our differences but we have many shared interests and yes the lust is still there although hes been so tired since my stroke in april its a bit depleted at moment and hes a bit frightened we might bring on another stroke! |
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Persephone | Report | 27 Oct 2009 09:14 |
I don't know whether he was Mr Lust, Mr Spark or Mr Right he is still there/here and is now Mr Where's my. |
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Kay???? | Report | 27 Oct 2009 09:12 |
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McAnne's Gahan-Crazy | Report | 27 Oct 2009 07:45 |
Well ........... |
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Guinevere | Report | 27 Oct 2009 06:00 |
Sparks often fizzle and die quickly like fireworks but are amazing while they last. If you are very, very lucky you find someone who is sparky and a companion. |
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maggiewinchester | Report | 27 Oct 2009 00:03 |
Hmm - not thought about this before. |
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Berona | Report | 26 Oct 2009 23:44 |
Go for the spark and see how long it lasts. If it keeps going, forget Mr.Right - he's probably Mr.Wrong. |
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Sue | Report | 26 Oct 2009 23:44 |
OH and I totally incompatible but still together after 31 years |
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DIZZI | Report | 26 Oct 2009 23:38 |
SPARK DEFO |
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MissFitz | Report | 26 Oct 2009 23:35 |
I would prefer Mr Right rather than Mr spark, I like someone I can talk to and have the same interests as, and I know they say opposites attract but when the spark has gone out and that initial lust thing ends then your oposite can be very boring. |
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SueMaid | Report | 26 Oct 2009 21:52 |
OH and I are not alike in many ways but we've learned to live with that. We went for "spark" - 37 years ago |
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ChAoTicintheNewYear | Report | 26 Oct 2009 21:45 |
spark |
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Lorraine | Report | 26 Oct 2009 21:38 |
Hi all |
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Uggers | Report | 26 Oct 2009 21:20 |
That's true, Sheila:) OH and I are very different and with mostly very different interests but we have the spark and are compatible. |
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°o.OOº°‘¨Claire in Wales¨‘°ºOO.o° | Report | 26 Oct 2009 21:20 |
If someone has to ask then neither man is right |
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SheilaSomerset | Report | 26 Oct 2009 21:18 |
Compatibility wins! But who's to say you can't have both? |
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Jane | Report | 26 Oct 2009 21:11 |
I have had a spark with someone who I was very tempted to take a risk with ....BUT THANKFULLY I put my sensible head back on and have stayed with my compatible OH (28 years) I could have messed things up big time.Phew!!!!! |
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SueMaid | Report | 26 Oct 2009 21:07 |
Yes I know Uggers |