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Added By Lemon Nelly on 13/07/2007 14:24:44 | Update Message | Delete Message I never felt part of a clique, sometimes I saw one persons point of view the next I didn't. I was prepared to meet and talk to anyone who wanted to meet or talk to me. But it becomes clear very quickly some people just do not want to know you. Because even when you state 'I will answer anyone and everyone' some still don't venture in. I was as keen to talk to a new member a middly member and the old yins. But from the looks of things my very reappearance, which I will say again happened because I was up late and saw someone who needed help, seems to have upset some people. You can't win, if you go you are giving in, if you come back you are under scrutiny by some and your reasons doubted. It was lovely last night to talk and reminisce with a lot of people, it was nice to see people like Dave who used to appear occasionaly to talk about his jam making, but I tried to talk to everyone as I srted off, it didn't matter if I knew them or not or when they joined, came on today to answer anyone who added later so I hadn't ignored ANYONE, and now once again I seem to have stirred up a whole new can of worms. Thanks to the people who stopped for a blether last night, and sadly my weariness which I thought I had got over with sites in general seems to have bit me in the backside again. Like I said....you just can't win!

Aftrnoon Lemon...Nice to see you on here again,!

Lemon I didnt stay last night But before I went I spoke to you and Borobabs It was lovely to see you both here again and Im sure everyone loved the reminiscing So please come back soon and have a good natter with your friends and I know you would also like the new folks they are ok to Linda xx

Hello and thanks, just came back to add a PS, if I am not answering it is because I am switching off. XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX Speak soon

hello ,just do your own thing .i put threads up and sometimes don't get a single reply ,but still i keep posting .also remember ,'you can't please everybody all of the time ' dot x

Hi Lems Did you add this to my thread????? Do you mean that your kindness the other night has resulted in people arguing? I didn't think we were! I thought we were having a reasonable discussion *confused* Jeanette x

Lems I am always delighted to see you - whichever site it is .......... I am afraid I was out last night so I missed your return - I hope to see you around again soon xxx

Hello Lemon.......I didn't mean to ignore you!.......and I'm not supposed to be playing on this thing again today, as I have the dreaded Tesco Shove to do!! So please don't tell hubby I'm here ;0)) I think that the fact that people are talking over how they are feeling is really positive...and it may be that your coming back on has been a bit of a catalyst for that, but it really is better that people begin to understand each other. We don't need to agree. Now I am aware, for instance, that some people who have been treading the boards, so to speak, for a long time, feel that some of us newer and middly bees are excluding them. I had never considered that. And we all know that in general, we post where we feel comfortable, whoever we are! So this is one poster who will bear that in mind in the future. Whether you continue, or stop posting, only you can decide, and whatever that decision is, well, I wish you all the very, very best. But I would love the opportunity to get to know you better, and for you to get to know me and others like me. With love Daff xxx

Hi Jeanette was answering a PM or you would have missed me. Yes I did add it to your thread then thought twice and put it here. I took it my thread which caused a lot of reminiscing had upset people( not you Haddy). I have been scrutinised as to my reason for coming back by PM. Like I said I woulda talked to anyone. Like I said you can't win, you go you are giving in, you come back your motives are questioned. XXXXXXXXXXXXXXX Take care and really going now, I need some fresh air

Jeanette Think Lemon was on about a thread where a lot reminised last night then there was a thread this morning where it had upset someone Linda

Hi Anne, and everyone. Oh Daff I really am going love, but I wasn't thinking you had ignored me, oh hek no. I wasn't meaning anyone ignoring me lol that wouldn't bother me. I just felt the threads about oldies and newbies and cliques and reminiscing might have been my fault. I only came back to answer Haddy, and saw what you had said Daff, oh please don't think that was what I meant, XXXXXXXX Really going now x stay safe peeps

Well I'm glad I haven't upset you flower as you know I would never want to do that. My motives for reappearing on here were also questioned.....and I'd only been gone a week! LOL Take care xxx

Thanks Linda....I only caught the tail end of Lem's thread last night. Not sure if I saw one this morning!

oh dear will I be questioned for still being on here??? when my membership is up and I said I was going. I got a lovely pm from a lovely man on here and that and a few other things made me decide to re new. lol

LEMS IM STAYING WELL AWAY FROM THE FRIENDS I LOVE YESTERDAY ONE A STROKE TODAY A CUZ,,,HIS WIFE HAS HAD A HEART ATTACK IM,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,NOT GOOD TO KNOW XXXX

Hiya Lems, you are never gonna please all the people all the time!! No time to play today, OH needs clean clothes, so catch you later!! lol Nanna-Moo ;-))

Lemon.......nooo, I'm not upset...well yes I am lol...but cos you're not staying!! Not for any other reason!! I really do wish you all the very best...please pop in once in a while? Sort of high days and holidays, Christmas and Easter, you know the sort of thing. Ruth...I'm so glad you changed your mind!! Love Daff xxx

Thank you Daff xx Lemon was one of the nicest people here when I first joined 3 years ago, and I still think that.

Gwen....I am so sorry for your friend, I hope she recovers soon...she has been through so much already. Love to you, too. Love Daff xxx

You know I was glad to see you Lemon, am sorry though. x