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I feel for you Susan. Sadly sometimes a death in the family can bring the worst out in some members. Try & be strong and remember what you are doing and what you have done for your Grandad. Use today as your time to say a last farewell. It will be a difficult time but know that your Grandad, I'm sure, is taking care of you. (((((((hugs)))))))

My grandad passed away Monday 11 06 07 Today is his funeral when he is buried with my angel my nanny davies Im so down loosing my grandad but its been made worse by a family that as far as Im now concerned isnt mine they want everything and dont care what they say or do to get it I feel like Im going to topple over the edge as hes my last grandparent now Im not saying he was an angel he was a pain in the ass on times but I promised him I would be with him when he died and my brother and I were even though the hospitial rang and told us that grandad had took a turn for the worse we rushed up there 2 hours later when he had passed over I rang to say he had gone they were at home all of them Then its gone worse from there Ive had a week of torture from the lot but Ive organised his flowers in a RAF motif and a grandad ribbon over the top. All I ask is please send your positive spirit through the day as Im going to have to be strong and ignore the jibes Im sure to get many thanks RIP George Herbert Davies (Bert) Shropshire

Hi Susan, I am so sorry to hear about you grandfather, you will be strong today, just keep telling yourself that, be strong for HIM, forget about the rest of the family. I know from experience what family's can be like after a death!! You do what you have to do!! Be strong and think only of your grandfather today. best wishes Betty

be strong susan ,it will be hard but you can do it .remember your grandad with love .you have your memories and no one can take them from you .hope today goes well .chin up .

Just remember the happy times you and your grandad had and let the rest of the family get on with it. Take care of yourself, and loads of positive thoughts for you today. Lin x

Condolences to you Susan xx I will be thinking of you today ((((HUGS))))

Susan.....I am certain that your Grandad will be proud of the way you are handling this situation.....and Shirley-ann is right in saying that deaths and funerals can bring out the worst in people.... Let the others get on with it, just carry on behaving in a dignified manner, and thinking of yourself and how you are going to cope with his loss... I am so happy that you can rise above all this and focus on what is important....the loss of a lovely man who was very dear to you....

Today Susan I can understand your pain my thoughts are with you and your family Hayley xxxx

Will be thinking of you today - be strong and think of your grandad - and the happy times you spent with him. Take care Love Mary xxx

thinkinking of you & your grandad (((((((HUGS)))))))))) love Joycexx

Thinking of you and your family Linda x

thinking of you Susan at this sad time sending postive thoughts to you and try to stay strong love joyce from hollandxx

Been there...done it, know how you're feeling. I have lost all of my Grandparents and my Dad...I didn't want anything at all, it has taken us 10 years to forgive our Uncle for what he did at my Grandad's death bed...RISE ABOVE THEM ALL Susan...you will be the better person....sending you some huge squidgy (((HUGS))) cos I think you deserve them...keep your head held high and rise above them. ~ Stella X X X

Susan, I hope you are ok, and am sending you a very big hug and thoughts to you on your loss, RIP Bert, Caz xxxxxxxx

George Herbert Davies , R.I.P, a hero .... (((((HUGS)))) to you Susan , a wonderful Grandaughter xxx Kim xxx

Thinking of you and your family xxxx

Bless you babe, i sorry to hear the problems your having, families are difficult at times. Look after yourself hun Jan

Susan, i got this when my Nan died but miss them both, If tomorrow starts without me, And I'm not there to see, If the sun should rise and find your eyes All filled with tears for me; I wish so much you wouldn't cry The way you did today, While thinking of the many things, We didn't get to say. I know how much you love me, As much as I love you, And each time that you think of me, I know you'll miss me too; But when tomorrow starts without me, Please try to understand, That an angel came and called my name, And took me by the hand, And said my place was ready, In heaven far above, And that I'd have to leave behind All those I dearly love. But as I turned to walk away, A tear fell from my eye, For all my life, I'd always thought, I didn't want to die. I had so much to live for, So much left yet to do, It seemed almost impossible, That I was leaving you. I thought of all the yesterdays, The good ones and the bad, I thought of all that we shared, And all the fun we had. If I could relive yesterday, Just even for a while, I'd say good-bye and kiss you And maybe see you smile. But then I fully realized, That this could never be, For emptiness and memories, Would take the place of me. And when I thought of worldly things, I might miss some tomorrow, I thought of you, and when I did, My heart was filled with sorrow. But when I walked through heaven's gates, I felt so much at home. When God looked down and smiled at me, From His great golden throne, He said, 'This is eternity, And all I've promised you.' Today your life on earth is past, But here life starts anew. I promise no tomorrow, But today will always last, And since each day is the same way, There's no longing for the past. So when tomorrow starts without me, Don't think we're far apart, For every time you think of me, I'm right here, in your heart '

So sorry to hear your sad news Susan. Take comfort in knowing you and your grandad loved each other. He's now in his safe place. Take care Mau xx

Hi Susan, I am so sorry, sometimes funerals bring out the worst in people. I have experienced two such funerals. I started to tell you about them on this thread, but its not what you or anyone wants to hear right now. Needless to say I am still reeling from the actions of those Vultures. The only thing I can say is that I found a quiet spot and said I am sorry for the actions of others to the deceased. I still get upset when I think about it. Anyway, Bert knows whats what and I am sure he knows that you love him and he'll always be there for you if you need him. Take care, Ria xxx