General Chat

hi last weekend i went visiting graves id found while doing the family tree (id found the graves of my great grandpa and great grandma a couple of years ago) in the same grave was my grandmas first husband he died at the age of 32, and their young baby son who died at the age of 8 months, so he would have been my mums half brother. My grandma married again and had my mum, mum did know about her brother but nothing much was said about it, well when i told mum id found the graves she said that her mother had never mentioned where he was buried and cannot remember her visiting this grave. i dont know why this was, perhaps it was too upsetting, but now i feel like im doing something wrong every time i go and should leave well alone has anyone else felt like this or is it just me? Scarlett.