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I have waitied over eight months to find out the cause of death for my Son Stephen, and still got no coroner;s date, but been told probably SADS-hereditary so all family need testing, at last get date, Thursday. Got call today, your family is so big, ten of us, can only do siblings and Mother this month, grand children next month-how long do they expect us to stay sane with a death sentence hanging over us-I argued my point-got to wait till Thursday morning for decision.

Just popped in to give you this before I go off to my bed ((((((HUG))))))

Thank you Carol, just what I needed.

10's not that big! but I guess their thinking is if they give you and your children the all clear, then odds are your grandchildren may not need testing - it sounds logical to the people in the office but is no concilation to you and your family when your worried and scared for ypurselves and loved ones. Hope the test results come back ok. (((((((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))))))

I can't begin to imagine what your going through Jennifer, but I really hope it all turns out well for you and your family. Love and hugs Heather x

fingers crossed for your tests on Thursday. How long will you have to wait for those results?

No idea how long we have to wait for results-I just need us all to get tested and sorted as it is causing so much worry and pain for both myself and of course my children-had enough worry-would love them to get the all clear for Christmas-bless them and their little one's.

Hi Jennifer I really hope everything goes well and all this can be sorted out, and you have the answers you need. Always thinking about you Teresa xx

Must admit I have been so focused on getting test date coped well, but now the day is nigh-getting nervous. Thank you all for your kindness these past eight months-everything crossed for tomorrow.

Will be thinking of you all on Thursday Jennifer. Hope all goes well. Germaine x

Will be thinking of you tomorrow. (((HUG)))

Hi, What a distressful and heartwrenching time for you. Just keep being in their faces every minute of the day so they don't pass you down the line and forget you. Shouldn't need to do it but just make sure they know you are on their backs 24/7. Like anything else these days, the more you complain and are in their faces, the quicker you get things done. Thoughts are with you. Aileen xxx

Hugs and thoughts for you tommorow Jennifer, caz xxxxxx

I think I must have missed your other thread but how did your memorial weekend and fireworks go?

Jennifer-I know how sad you feel- red tape takes forever- but you will get your answers I'm sure of it. Just to let you know sweetheart i'm thinking of you and you know where I am if you need me. love catherine xx xx xx xx xx xx

Thank you all-Firework display went very well, memorial cut me up-but tomorrow is another day I am not looking forward to, but......

Will be thinking of you tomorrow Jennifer Jay

Jennifer,Will be thinking of you all day tomorrow.Jen i was thinking maybe 10 is not a lot, but perhaps they also have another family booked in and are only doing immediate family first? But (((((HUGS))))) Annie xxx

hi jen,just to let you know that,i still think of you threw this most trying time..you are doing so well you diserve a medal. (((((((((((hugs))))))))))) to you and your family. take good care jen love gwyn XXXXXXXXXXXX.

Thank you - getting very nervous - do not know when results will be here - could be in time for Christmas - have you ever had a Christmas present you hated.