General Chat

So you meet 'Mr Right' who has the same interests , you find lots to talk about and have discussions on everything , history , politics, religion....all very interesting and you find you agree more often than not ..... but

the 'spark' is there with someone who you have nothing in common with, opposite in opinions, background...everything in fact ...

which way do you jump ? ( did you jump?)

( before anyone asks, no it isn't applying to me ;)

Rose xx

Evening Rose:)

Spark for me is more important than compatibility. Mr Right sounds like a mate and the spark like a partner.

And of course I jumped;)

Go with the "spark" for however long it lasts:-)))

Sue xx

Evening SueMaid and Uggers :)

That's what I think too lol

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Look at Hugh Jackman - which I do often. There's a real spark there but I doubt we have anything in common. I would however overcome the lack of conversation:-)))

Sue xx

Sue that is *so* shallow

well I had to google him, Sue :)

Yes I know Uggers;-)))

He's passable isn't he Rose:-)

Sue xx

I have had a spark with someone who I was very tempted to take a risk with ....BUT THANKFULLY I put my sensible head back on and have stayed with my compatible OH (28 years) I could have messed things up big time.Phew!!!!!
It would have been exciting though lol.

Compatibility wins! But who's to say you can't have both?

If someone has to ask then neither man is right

That's true, Sheila:) OH and I are very different and with mostly very different interests but we have the spark and are compatible.

Hi all

Yes i married for lust nothing in common whatsoever

We didn't have the same taste in music, films,football clubs we support,food we like, nothing

Oh and this christmas is our silver wedding anniversary its been rocky but fun, never a dull moment when you marry for lust!!!!!!!!!!!

spark ;-)

OH and I are not alike in many ways but we've learned to live with that. We went for "spark" - 37 years ago:-))

Sue xx

I would prefer Mr Right rather than Mr spark, I like someone I can talk to and have the same interests as, and I know they say opposites attract but when the spark has gone out and that initial lust thing ends then your oposite can be very boring.

SPARK DEFO

OH and I totally incompatible but still together after 31 years :-))

Must have been LUST!!!!!

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Go for the spark and see how long it lasts. If it keeps going, forget Mr.Right - he's probably Mr.Wrong.

If the spark fades away - you can always rely on Mr.Right - but hey! not before you look around for another spark!

Hmm - not thought about this before.
Must have gone for the 'spark' - unfortunately a few others did too!
We're still friends- probably moreso now than before - but I wasn't prepared to put up with his 'playing away' LOL
(BTW, I've met every woman he's had affairs with - even when he was married to No 2) LOL
Must be a bit weird for them.