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Prayers And Positive Thoughts For My Mum Please...
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Toothfairy | Report | 14 Nov 2006 13:05 |
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After 22 years of abuse from her husband my mum has finally found the strength to leave. She told him this morning, he has gone 'mad'..... He told her not to bother comming home tonight as she no longer lives there..He is a violent, abusive man and i'm terrified for her safety... Please think of her and send her the strength to get through this..It's going to get very nasty!...Does anyone know where she stands financially? Will she get half the house? Any information would be great.. Thankyou... LOU XXXXX |
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*~~*Posh*~~* | Report | 14 Nov 2006 13:09 |
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Oh Lou how awfull for her. Sending a (((((((((((((((( hug)))))))))))))))))) and positive thoughts to your Mum and you. C x |
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Sylvia Ross | Report | 14 Nov 2006 13:10 |
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Sending positive thoughts and prayers for her safety and that things can be sorted for her. I reckon the best thing at this early stage would be the Citizens Advice Bureau and also a free half hour discussion with a solicitor. |
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Guinevere | Report | 14 Nov 2006 13:12 |
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She needs to see a solicitor right away. It's far too complicated to be dealt with here - there are too many variables. Good luck to both of you Gwynne |
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Val | Report | 14 Nov 2006 13:13 |
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Your mum should see CAB as she is entitled to half of every thing including the house, some lawyers do a free half hour tell her to go see them as they will advise her and to see council for a safe place to stay they will help her Please tell your mum to be strong as if he is abusive to her she may back down but I will pray she doesn't (((HUGS))) I have been there so I do know what I am talking about |
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Catherine from Manchester | Report | 14 Nov 2006 13:15 |
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thinking of your mum go with her to see a solicitor or the CAB catherine xx |
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Toothfairy | Report | 14 Nov 2006 13:21 |
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She wont back down this time. Before he had her so terrified she couldnt walk away...After 3 years of kickboxing lessons she has the confidence to go..I am so pleased for her, but on the other hand terrified of what he might do... I have made her promise to get out quick if he goes for her and to not try to fight back unless she has to.....Will ring CAB now... xxxx |
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Germaine | Report | 14 Nov 2006 13:24 |
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Thoughts for your Mum Hope all goes well Take Care Germaine x |
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PinkDiana | Report | 14 Nov 2006 13:24 |
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OK one thing she needs to know is that if there is a danger of him coming to find her or he threatens to come round, she can call the Police before he arrives..... do not let her wait til he has his hands on her!! |
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Toothfairy | Report | 14 Nov 2006 13:27 |
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Telly addict - AAARRRGGGHHHH, He's not my DAD!!!!! God forbid, lol, He's her husband after my Daddy died...(Dont worry, no offence taken though, lol) Yes, i've told her to get out and ring police, and then to ring me..I'll have his bits for earmuffs if he touches her.... LOU XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX |
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Val | Report | 14 Nov 2006 13:28 |
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Please let us know how she is getting on and that she is safe |
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PinkDiana | Report | 14 Nov 2006 13:30 |
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Look up 'woman's aid' in your local telephone directory.... they will give her a safe haven if she needs one! xx |
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trixy | Report | 14 Nov 2006 13:32 |
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So sorry to see about your Mum, I know she will find the strengh to do what she needs to do. I did and have never looked back! big hug for your mum!(((((((((hug)))))))) and lots of positive thoughts and prayers to both of you xxx |
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Sally | Report | 14 Nov 2006 13:34 |
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thoughts and prayers for your mum. hope she is fine,God looks after his own.... So does the devil....hope the swine rots in HELL... take care Sally xx |
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Roxanne | Report | 14 Nov 2006 14:10 |
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Hi Lou,I feel so sorry for your Mum,but she has done the right thing. She MUST see a solicitor as soon as its possible.im sending you and her big ((hugs)). Love Rox xx |
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Silly Sausage | Report | 14 Nov 2006 14:25 |
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(((((((((((((((Hugs)))))))))) LOU to you and your Mum xxxxxxx |
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MaggyfromWestYorkshire | Report | 14 Nov 2006 14:52 |
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Good luck to your mum and good for her for having the courage to do something about it. Hope everything goes ok for her. |
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ann | Report | 14 Nov 2006 16:09 |
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Good Luck Lou to your mum.I have my eldest daughter and grandaughter with me.She leaves him and then goes back.He started again Sat night and yesterday morning smashed her glasses in her face.We have been out today and put a deposit on a flat that she is going to rent for the time being.Annie |
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Paul | Report | 14 Nov 2006 16:19 |
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Lou, good luck to you mother - she's done the right thing. I knwo its complex, but I've NEVER understood women who stay with violent men (or vice versa). Paul |
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R.B. | Report | 14 Nov 2006 16:23 |
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Thinking of your Mum...........my friend is having the same probs and she has left her o.h. Sending Hugs to you Both. R.B. xxx |
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