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Oh bless him. ((hugs)) x

How sad Paul, it must be awful for you, i would be devasted if anything happened to our dog, (the dog i never wanted to have) i love her to bits ,even though she did have me over last night and i ended up at docs today with a poorly knee. Shirley Ann.

It's an old wives tale to let an dog or cat to have a litter before spaying! Trust me! I'm in the business.

Im not letting my dog have pups ,not putting her through that. lol. Shirley Ann.

Paul,So sorry to hear about your poor old dog.Mine was 12 when i had to have her put down.She kept messing in her sleep.Even in the day time she had no control.When we took her to the vets and she was examined he said the nerves were going in her spine.Sometimes my hubby would have to pick her up as she couldn't get up.Feel very sad for you and your best mate. Annie x

Paul-I know it's hard chuck,but do what is best for the animal---they must come first.

personally I think when they start to have accidents in their sleep or around the house its time to let go. They look so pitiful as they dont know whether they will be told of for doing something they have no control over. My last dog went completely deaf and frail but when he started messing then I realised i had to take him to the vets for the last time. He couldnt have his usual walk anymore as he was deaf I couldnt let him of his lead cos if he couldnt see me he would panic and burst into a trot so I would have to chase after him. He then became a danger to himself as he got near the road one day before I reached him.

Our vets said about our cat, when he was terminally ill, that when his quality of life had gone, that's the time to call it a day. It breaks our hearts I know, but the pet must come first. Take care. x A Pet’s Prayer If it should be that I grow frail and weak And pain should keep me from my sleep Then you must do what must be done, For this last battle can’t be won. You will be sad – I understand – Don’t let your grief then stay your hand; For this day, more than all the rest Your love and friendship stand the test. We’ve had so many happy years, What is to come can hold no fears; You’d not want me to suffer so When the time comes, please let me go. Take me where my needs they’ll tend, Only – stay with me till the end; And hold me firm and speak to me Until my eyes no longer see. I know in time you will see It’s a kindness that you do for me; Although my tail its last has waved, From pain and suffering I’ve been saved. Don’t grieve that it should be you Who has to decide this thing to do; We’ve been so close all through the years, Don’t let your heart hold any tears. Author unknown.

Sorry to hear about your dog. I hope as you say, he doesn't suffer.

Paul, I am so sad to hear that your dog is poorly. Dogs are always happy to see you, they are such a joy to have around and they love you unconditionally. I have had two dogs and both have had to be put to sleep which was heartbreaking. I hope when the time comes your dog is taken peacefully and my thoughts are with you.

He's a bit perkier this afternoon. He had his cortozone injection this morning, and I think it's just kicked in, he's being a little sod, and waiting underneath the kitchen table for anything which might drop on the floor. hehe!

Just seen your Pets Prayer Glenys - really lovely, feel quite tearful now....

Glad to hear he's a bit better Paul. Shirley Ann.

I wish I could take the credit for it, Sylvia, but sadly not. It's a beautiful poem that I've put up many times in such circumstances; it really helped hubby and I in 1997 when we had to put our beloved cat Tiger to sleep. I know it's written with dogs in mind, but what the heck! :-) x

Doesn't matter, cat, dog, hamster, budgie, rabbit.... we grow so fond of them all Glenys. Had to do it myself to my cats....

I know exactly what you`re going through, having been a lifelong dog owner. My Sam went just over a year ago, hhaving fought diabetes for 6 years. He was blind for the last 2 yrs of his life, tho` he managed brilliantly. He was 12 1/2 when he went, his body just couldn`t take any more. I always promised him I`d be with him, and I`m so glad he went in my arms. It broke my heart, but I `m grateful for so many happy years. We owe it to them to do what`s right. thinking of you.

Despite the sad circumstances we've all posted here, I must comment on how heartening it is that there are so many caring pet owners around. I know there's only a few on this thread, but you know what I mean, lol. (((HUGS))) to all of you. x

Just noticed this babe... my staffie is 15...so i know what u mean...everydays a blessingxx

A big, big hug to you Paul, If you have seen a thread of mine about my dog, I know exactly how you feel, what type is your dog? Caz xxxxxx

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